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Rubén. 11/02. Scorpio. Introverted. Hot-blooded. Lazy.
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NOW THAT IS A FUCKING HARD QUESTION, SON.
BUT I THINK ALL LOVE IS PRETTY MUCH THE SAME, JUST DIFFERENT FUCKING LEVELS OF IT. AND CERTAIN TYPES OF LOVE DO DIFFERENT THINGS. I THINK THE LOVE YOU HAVE YOUR YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS IS JUST THE SAME LOVE AS SAY, SOMEONE YOU ARE FUCKING DATING, BUT YOU JUST HANDLE THAT LOVE DIFFERENTLY. YOU EXPRESS IT DIFFERENTLY.
SEX DOES NOT EQUAL LOVE EITHER, SON. THAT IS USUALLY THE FIRST FUCKING THING THAT POPS INTO PEOPLE’S FUCKING MINDS ABOUT IT. AND WHILE YES, SOME FORMS OF LOVE ARE EXPRESSED THAT WAY, IT ISN’T THE ONLY WAY. JUST BECAUSE YOU CAN HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE, DOESN’T MEAN YOU ALWAYS LOVE THEM.
THE THING ABOUT LOVE IS THAT IT IS FUCKING FICKLE AS SHIT. I BELIEVE THAT PEOPLE CAN FALL IN AND OUT OF LOVE. I DO THINK THAT A LOT OF THE FUCKING TIME, WHEN SOMEONE FUCKING SAYS I LOVE YOU, AND THEN DOESN’T FEEL IT IN THE FUTURE, FOR THAT ONE MOMENT, THEY DID FEEL LOVE. IT AS FUCKING THERE.
AND THAT FACT, THAT LOVE COMES AND GOES, DOES NOT FUCKING CHEAPEN IT, SON.
YOU KNOW WHAT ELSE COMES AND GOES?
LIFE.
WE’RE BORN, WE LIVE, AND WE FUCKING DIE. JUST LIKE LOVE, IT IS DEVELOPED, IT EXISTS, AND IT DIES TOO. SOMETIMES IT LASTS A LONG TIME. LONG AFTER THE PEOPLE WHO FUCKING EXPERIENCED IT ARE GONE. THAT’S THE BEST FUCKING KIND OF LOVE, SON. SOMETHING SO FUCKING STRONG THAT PEOPLE REMEMBER IT EVEN WHEN THE PEOPLE ARE JUST FUCKING MEMORIES.
BUT THE LOVE YOU ARE PROBABLY FUCKING TALKING ABOUT, WHAT PEOPLE LIKE TO CALL TRUE LOVE, ISN’T EASY. IT’S HARD AS FUCK. IT IS RARE, BUT IT EXISTS. THE REASON WHY IT IS SO FUCKING HARD TO FIND IS BECAUSE SO MANY FUCKING PEOPLE DON’T WANT TO PUT IN THE FUCKING EFFORT FOR IT.
LOVE STAYS THROUGH ALL HARDSHIPS. LOVE IS LOYAL AND DEDICATED. LOVE IS WHEN YOUR BEST FUCKING FRIEND TAKES CARE OF YOU THE WHOLE WEEK YOU ARE SICK, SACRIFICING THEIR SPARE TIME FOR YOU. LOVE IS A PARENT GETTING UP EVERY MORNING TO MAKE BREAKFAST AND HELP THEIR KIDS GET READY FOR THE DAY. LOVE IS GOING OUT IN THE MIDDLE OF THE FUCKING NIGHT BECAUSE YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER NEEDS SOMETHING FROM YOU. LOVE IS ABOUT PERSONAL SACRIFICES, SON.
BUT PERSONAL SACRIFICES FROM BOTH PEOPLE. LOVE IS SELFLESS, BUT ISN’T FUCKING USED. IT ISN’T TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF. LOVE IS A FUCKING BALANCE OF SELFISH AND SELFLESS. LOVE IS TAKING CARE OF YOUR FUCKING SELF, WHILE ALSO TAKING CARE OF YOUR LOVER. IT’S ABOUT BALANCE. FAIRNESS. COMPROMISE. FORGIVENESS. ACCEPTANCE.
LOVE MAKES YOU HAPPY.
AND IF YOU’RE NOT HAPPY, THAT’S NOT LOVE. I SEE TOO MANY FUCKING PEOPLE STAY WITH THEIR LOVERS BECAUSE THEY ARE WORRIED ABOUT HURTING THEM, OR THEY FEEL FUCKING GUILTY. SON. THAT HURTS BOTH SIDES MORE THAN YOU CAN FUCKING IMAGINE. PEOPLE WHO FORCE THEMSELVES, OR FORCE OTHERS, TO STAY, JUST CAUSE A VICIOUS AND CONTINUOUS CYCLE OF HURT.
IT’S NOT WORTH IT, SON. IF YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE, IF YOU DOUBT THE FEELINGS YOU HAVE, IT IS BETTER TO MOVE ON THEN FORCE YOURSELF. BECAUSE IF YOU FUCKING FORCE YOURSELF, YOU WON’T BE HAPPY, YOU’LL BE FUCKING MISERABLE, AND IN TURN, YOU’LL BOTH BE FUCKING MISERABLE.
ANOTHER THING, SON. IF YOU ARE FUCKING LONELY, REMEMBER, LOVE YOURSELF, AND YOU WILL FIND LOVE. YOU CAN’T FUCKING HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IF YOU DON’T. BECAUSE IF YOU CAN’T EVEN LOVE YOURSELF, HOW CAN YOU POSSIBLY LOVE SOMEONE ELSE? THE HEALTHIEST LOVE IS A LOVE THAT IS ALL LOVE, BOTH INWARDLY AND OUTWARDLY. ANYTHING ELSE AND THAT LOVE IS FUCKING TAINTED.
LOVE MORE, BE LOVED MORE.
BUT TO ANSWER YOUR FUCKING QUESTION DIRECTLY, HOW DO YOU FUCKING KNOW YOU ARE IN LOVE?
WELL, SON. I DON’T HAVE TOO MUCH EXPERIENCE WITH THAT MYSELF. BUT, TO ME. I KNOW I LOVE WHEN I AM WILLING TO GIVE MY ALL, TO BE THERE NO MATTER WHAT CISCUMSTANCES ARISE. THAT WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT, I WILL FUCKING DEFEND THAT LOVE WITH MY LIFE BECAUSE IT IS THAT FUCKING WORTH IT. AND I WANT NOTHING MORE THAN THAT PERSON TO BE HAPPY. NOT TO MAKE ME HAPPY, BUT FOR THEM TO BE.
BECAUSE, SON, THERE ARE FEW THINGS MORE FUCKING BEAUTIFUL IN THIS WORLD THAN THE SMILE OF SOMEONE WHO IS IN LOVE.
ESPECIALLY WHEN THAT SMILE IS FOR YOU.
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